when.will.it.STOP!?!?!?

Germany! Oregon! Kuwait!
6 months! 3 months! 1 year!
October! August! September! NEVER!!!!!
arrrrggggg.....
So this is the Crappy Mc Crap we're dealing with right now. I know, doesn't make much sense, huh? To me, either. Unfortunately, this is what our future looks like!
We were happy chappies headed for home in August! Yay! Then, because I want to come to Germany so bad before we go home, we decided maybe it'd be best for Justin to resign a 1 year contract, stay for 6 months, and I'll go back to Germany for a couple months, then on home to get ready for him to come home. THEN, he goes and signs his contract, which is only for 3 months!!! Well, that was NEWS to us! BAD NEWS! So now, do I stay with him 'till October 23rd? Or, go to Germany, and wait for him to fly home, or does he make a run for it? And where the hell is all the money for 57 flights coming from, since he's being screwed out of his contract!? I'm SO flippin' sick of decision making! It's making me so sad, pissed, sick, angry, you name it, if it's a crappy ass feeling, I'm there. I am SO over this! When the HELL did we become adults, and how do we make it stop?!